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Basics for Leading An Effective Small Group

A student’s experience is made mostly by their leader. Because of that, we want to help you be the best SwitchGroup Leader you can possibly be.

There Are Two Basic Things You Want To Do When Starting Your Small Group:
  • ​Create an environment of trust
  • Establish the boundaries

Create An Environment Of Trust
  • Get the chatter out right away by getting to know them and something fun about them.
  • If you’re having trouble getting them to talk right away, ask a leading question such as, “What is your favorite appropriate YouTube video?”
  • This allows the students to get used to talking. Entering into their chatter and listening shows them that you care. More times than not, allowing these few moments of open chatter creates an environment of trust within your small group before you ever get to the discussion.

Establish The Boundaries
Take control of the group by saying something like, “We’re about to get started.” Here’s what you want them to understand:
  • What’s discussed in this group stays in this group.
  • If someone is talking, no one else should be talking.
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Do's

Don'ts

  • Facilitate conversation.
  • LISTEN! Show nothing but love, encouragement, and understanding.
  • Make sure no one is left out.
  • Be transparent! Whatever you’re asking them to discuss you should be ready to share as well.
  • Relax—Don’t worry if the students like you or not. Just lead!​
  • ​Preach to the students.
  • Just give them the answer.
  • Dominate the conversation.
  • Demand participation.
  • Assume that you have all the answers.
  • Try to be someone you’re not!
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    • Weekend Services
    • United Night
  • GROW
    • Small Groups >
      • Find a Group
      • Lead a Group
    • Growth Track
    • Dream Team
  • Events
    • Project 10:27
    • Summer Camp
    • Summer Internship
    • Permission Slip
  • Parents Page
  • Contact
    • I Said YES
    • Next Steps